Every moment in life is a miracle, as well as a mystery. I could feel it when she said, “Our mind and our heart is like a sieve, we need to do away with what we hold, shed what we have access to, to make room for whats in the making.” For me, I have always treasured moments which I have lived. Be it good or bad, sweet or sour, any experience, with whom I loved, is something which I have always treasured. An angry stern look, a warm cozy hug, watever.

Yes, we need to move on, we need to grow, win over our desires, replenish our weaknesses with strength. Very lately I understood that there is no such thing called right or wrong. There are no absolutes. What seems to you your weakness at a time might be the biggest strength for someone else. Even an event that appears to be a tragedy to you might seem to be the seeds of opportunity for someone else. Its all about circumstances of life, how they are interpreted, processed and finally executed.

One such recent experience, made me think, and wonder why it happens, can it be avoided? When it happened, I felt nothing, neither good or bad, was almost blank, pondering what had happened, why and how it happened. Was it neccesary? Such unexpected events, wanted or unwanted, good or bad, they just happen. Just when all this was going through my mind, I received an sms. A msg which forced me to re think whatever had happened. Just done, not even completed. “What was the lesson learnt?” – - she asked. It made me think harder. It made me question. It made me realise, there are no mistakes in life, only lessons.

Everytime I see life it has a different perspective. There is no such thing called negative experience, no such point where we should assess weakness, it is only an opportunity to learn, to grow and live upto the expectations, of your’s and others’ and move forward along the life’s crossroads, which we don’t know where it will lead us to. From this yearn; the struggle of life, comes strength. Strength to be closer to whom we love, to be cozier with ppl who love us back, to understand relationships, to assess our own soul, to live our own feelings.

Such unwanted experiences can turn out to be a great teacher. I was always sure of what I wanted but it strengthened its roots deep within when she said it. “We are the best believers! The best breed!! Lets just do it.. That’s all.” It was all said in fun but had a true message. It filled me with clarity, inculcated the urge to believe, to do things we believe. To stop judging these events, just live it, experience it and learn from it. Every experience, good or bad, teaches us some lessons, lessons which hold the key to life. These small lessons, life teaches us, fuels our growth, as a being. It teaches us about familial ties, about people, about society, about life. At times it also makes us feel disappointed, breaks us apart. But then the laws of nature always ensures that when one door closes another opens. It teaches us to live, to move forward, to seek, coz only those who seek shall find. And there is nothing more nobler than being superier to your very own self. So grow while you seek.